I’ve been noticing a common pattern of behaviour around personal and spiritual growth and it is that we make the changes that it brings to be more difficult than they need to be. I feel that through societal views, perceived expectations and possibly even beliefs passed down with our upbringing we think things should be hard so we make them so.

Good old law of attraction, what we think we are; we are.

This issue came up in session with a client today. The session began with my client having an entity attached that shouldn’t be there. This peaked my interest because I like to go deeper with this stuff and not just clear the entity but find why this entity was able to attach to my client and heal that issue too. Doing this I found that my client had feeling neglected in her energy which led her to vulnerability and it was this vulnerability that was allowing the entity attachment. The deeper I went with this issue the more I discovered around feeling neglected and abandoned the origin of which ranged from age six to ten years of age. Through these experiences which I will keep private she learnt that she wasn’t worthy and always put others not only before her but actually above her. Eventually the energy led me to do a deep dive into her socialising issues of which she suffers anxiety's, in fact, she prefers to not socialise much at all but does so mostly for appearances sake. The information that was coming through around this highlighted that she feels judged by others for her choices and she was taking on this energy of judgement thanks to a past life issue where she claimed the role of the victim. With her victim energy in play she suppresses and hides who she really is because she is lacking self acceptance. The lack of self acceptance issues was creating a spiritual disconnect and in turn a disconnect from her true self.

All of this information made so much sense to this client, in fact, she’s currently struggling with a long time friendship who can get quite mean when she doesn’t get her way, that is, when my client stands in her truth. The spiritual guidance that came through for this client was that she needs to step away from this toxic friendship which is unhealthy for her. The relief my client felt was immediate, she said she felt like she had been given permission to move forward in a way that felt good to her but that she felt was difficult to do so she remained.

Permission Granted

Walking away from toxic relationships of any kind can be tricky for sure but don’t make it harder than it needs to be. We need to let toxic friendships go in order to allow higher vibrating energy and relationships in. Remaining in any situation we have outgrown lowers our vibration and sinks our energy which ultimately goes against our souls plan. By doing this we begin to live a life that wasn’t meant for us taking us off our path and in the wrong direction.

Stay on Path to Stay on Purpose

We must not hold ourselves back for the sake of others and it is important to note that too often moving on allows those we leave behind the opportunity to look within themselves and begin their soul healing journey. After all we are all connected and with every action there is a ripple affect we often don’t see.

I wonder what the world would look like if we all absolutely focussed on our own soul path and made our choices with our highest good in mind with complete trust in our intuitive guidance? It feels like it would be a gentler, kinder and more peaceful world to be in for sure.