Early last week I planned to write about boundaries and before I write a post I often have information coming in for a week or so before I actually sit down to write, I had even made some notes on what I was getting so I wouldn’t forget what to write and yet I still with all this going on failed to maintain a professional boundary I of my own. To be fair I corrected it as soon as I realised what I’d done but still I did it and it made it clear to me just how easy it is to slip up and breach our personal and professional boundaries. Due to past experiences with two clients, I’ve had to change the way I run my business quite drastically. I no longer see clients at my home and all my sessions are done via Skype. Don’t get me wrong I’ve always done Skype sessions, the work is the same it is actually no different to having a client right next to me. Energy is energy and the work I do is psychic, no hands on required so the sessions are just as amazing but for some people I realise it can feel a little strange having a healing session via Skype but I digress...

While I intuitively screen every client before I begin working with them to ensure I’m working with the souls I’m meant to be working with there is still the possibility that things can change. Everyone has free will and everyone makes their own choices regardless of the information I get and the messages that are offered and sometimes the information and the messages are ignored and choices are made that are not good for their soul and spirit and when this happens soul paths change, personalities change and people change and things don’t always work out how they are supposed to.

So, lesson learned and now I ensure I have strong boundaries. I have learned that boundaries are imperative not only for our own self respect and esteem but are important for our spiritual protection and well being as well. For me this is something I take incredibly seriously, with everything I’ve seen and experienced I’d be crazy not to. Putting up spiritual protection is one thing but it’s our boundaries that are most important, they can have an effect that protects beyond the physical with our emotional, spiritual and mental bodies. Psychic attack can be just as destructive and damaging as a physical assault, actually the effects are often worse because a psychic attack can penetrate all levels of our being not just the physical as with a physical assault. I guess one way to look at our boundaries is to reflect on why we do the things we do. To live in alignment with our spirit means we are living our truth and when we do things because we think we should or just so we don’t upset someone we are doing things for the wrong reasons and are going against our truth. This behaviour very quickly leads to anger, frustration and resentment which is a toxic way of living wouldn’t you agree? And not only that it leads to spiritual imbalance and further issues down the road.

Often our intuition is guiding us with where our boundaries should be set, it can be as simple as maybe getting a weird feeling with someone suddenly or anxiety about seeing someone or going somewhere and our intuition is letting us know it’s a bad idea and this where we must listen, even if makes no logical sense. Trust!

There are many reasons why we fail to maintain our boundaries, here’s a few;

• fear of upsetting someone or not being liked

• wanting to fit in

• needing to please everyone (impossible)

• avoiding conflict and keeping the peace

• lack of self worth and esteem

Do you find yourself doing things because you think you should? Maybe you struggle to say no? Are you stuck in a toxic relationship of any kind and need some help exiting? Do you allow people to treat you less than you deserve? Do people seem to walk all over you? Are you regularly feeling resentful of how little you are recognised and appreciated?

If you resonate with any of these or recognise that you maybe have trouble maintaining your boundaries please know a healing session can help. There are often deeper reasons as to why we struggle with boundaries but they can be cleared and some self awareness around our personal issues is extremely powerful.

What we often fail to remember is a very simple concept ‘as above, so below’. If something is happening spiritually whether we recognise it or not we experience it physically. Boundaries are imperative for our spiritual, mental and emotional well being.What boundaries have you set? Are you maintaining your boundaries?

Let’s talk, contact me today for a free consult or lets jump straight in and begin the healing contact me to book via anna@intuitivesoulhealing.com.au 

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