Be Honest

Healing SessionsEnergyPast LivesPath to Spirit

23 May

Something that often comes up in sessions is our connections to the people in our lives whether it be family or friends, colleagues or acquaintances and what I have recognised in us all is that we ignore, bury or deny our intuition, we essentially deny our truth so that we are not alone.

It is imperative that we choose our friends and relationships wisely, settling for sake of loneliness or some such other excuse is dangerous and actually steers us off our spiritual path. One wrong choice and we can fall off our path and find ourselves going in the wrong direction which can have devastating effects on you physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually and can even effect you for lifetimes to come. There is more to this than meets the eye, more that lies beneath the surface connecting us to the souls we meet and find resonance with. Not everything or everyone is always as it seems and some people come into our lives under the ruse of ‘soul mate’ so that what is unresolved can be healed from our souls, spirits or our past lives and this is where we need to trust our intuition.

Know Yourself

So, how do we keep on top of all this you may ask? Know yourself, know yourself in mind, soul and spirit. Know who you are, what you want, what you expect. Know your morals and ethics and boundaries. Know of all of this and honour it by maintaining it. When you know yourself you trust yourself and when you trust yourself you trust your intuition and trusting your intuition will keep you on your path.

Think back to a past relationship that has ended, think back to the very beginning and be completely honest with yourself. Was there a red flag? Was there a moment where you knew this wasn’t for your highest good, a feeling, a sense, something anything that was telling you to not continue down this road? I’ve heard from women knowing the night before their wedding they should call it off but don’t want to let everyone down, waste money etc etc; but this is your LIFE we are talking about, what can be more important than your life and your path?

I know this issue can actually be one of the most difficult things to acknowledge in our journey, the moment we took a wrong turn. It can be really confronting to be honest and look at our actions and past decisions and know that we made a mistake, a conscious mistake. It is these that we struggle with the most, when we admit that we knew on some level that what we were doing was wrong but we did it anyway. Owning our mistakes is the first step in healing and moving forward and yet it can be one of the biggest steps some of us will ever take and it can also be the step that some never take.

Every decision is a choice.

Whether we want to acknowledge this or not in these moments we actually choose to be with toxic souls rather than be on our own. We choose to stay in toxic friendships/relationships because of a need to be liked, accepted, included, wanted or to simply feel that we belong. It is in this moment that we absolutely ignored our Divine guidance in the form of our intuition and we bury it. It is later when we wonder where we went wrong. Not only that we may also subscribe to a false belief of some sort that keeps us stuck. Something along the lines of having to live with our choices and commitments etc we believe this one especially when it comes to family. You know the saying right? Family comes first, or blood is thicker than water etc, so we remain entangled with our family or relationship no matter the level of toxicity.

Our healing begins with self honesty.

We cannot be on the path if we are ignoring our intuition when it comes to our relationships. There is a reason some people are just not meant for us, we are not for everyone but we must be FOR ourselves. Remaining in toxic situations infects your energy over time, alters your spiritual self and can even lead you away from your true purpose of being here.